Sexy Talk: The Verbal Lovemaking

Words are the ultimate erotic tools. They arouse and thrill on their own. Until very recently, most "experts" on the art of making love have ignored, underplayed or underestimated the importance of words and verbal communication in creating a fulfilling sex life. Most people are unaware of the importance of words or talking in the sexual life. Sexy talking itself can become a complete and satisfying lovemaking through which couples can reach the peaks of happiness. Sexy talking is the use of the language of love to arouse, delight and nourish your partner and bring enriching new dimensions to your sex lives.

To have a successful sexy talk or verbal lovemaking one should learn to take and convert ordinary topics into erotic possibilities you can build on. Cast a spell with your voice. Load your conversation with a sexual tone that's as powerful as a physical touch. Conversation, especially to a woman, is the seed of sexual arousal and talking itself can lead to an orgasm. Conversation is how lovers, or those who want to be lovers turn the ignition and drive their imaginations as well as desires to stratospheric heights.

It is a wrong notion that only through physical contact one can enjoy lovemaking. Orgasm is the product of brain, and if brain is stimulated by touch or words, an orgasm is possible. Thus verbal lovemaking is possible and can be practiced successfully. Words can become a bridge across which the loving energy in your body, heart and soul can

travel. They can become the keys that can unlock the hidden delights of your secret sexual fantasies. Through the language of love, you can reveal the many delicious dimensions of your physical, mental, emotional and spiritual loving.

Erotic talk is also a form of communication you can use in those moments when you are aroused with the tender, delicate and playful sexual desire. It can be an imaginative medium that lets you share a sexual fantasy or create dialogue for its enactment with your lover. Verbal lovemaking is taking your partner to orgasm through words along with you also experience the ultimate sexual pleasure.

There are different ways of practicing verbal lovemaking or sexy talk. There are no clear cut and pre-defined ways or tips you have to follow in sexy talking. Sex is something very personal for each individual and it is each one to design and define the best way of practicing the art. Thus sexy talking can be practiced in a very personal way appealing and pleasurable to each one. Sharing fantasies is considered as a good way of sexy talk. It is your imaginations that is found the best guide to lead you to an orgasm in sexy talk.

There are many benefits to sexual communication. This can be told as the safest form of sex. If practiced properly one can reach the heights of sexual arousal without even touching your partner. It is not necessary that your partner should be with you to have a sexy talk. You can have a verbal lovemaking over phone also. Today, phone sex is a multi-billion business in some of the developed countries.

Your sexually toned words are as powerful to create waves of sensual pleasure in your partners mind. You can stimulate the sensual organs by verbal lovemaking. When the mind is aroused it will lead the body to sexual pleasure. With words it is easier to ignite the erotic imaginations in your partner and drive him or her to the peaks of unbridled passion. Remember that your words have the power to melt all the sexual barriers and bring about a sexual atmosphere which will create the oscillations of ecstasy in your body and will provide you the experience of profound joy of a perfect sexual union.

Many couple make the mistake of feeling silly about sexual talking. Oral sex is often classified and catogorised as unnatural or ugly. In reality verbal lovemaking is like any other method of enjoying sexual pleasure. Verbal lovemaking warms and boosts the communication between partners. Couples can successfully explore their sexual life through verbal lovemaking which in fact is the safest and creative method of lovemaking.