Get ready to win your wife in the first night

First night! The most waited moment after your eventful bachelor life. As soon as you enter your bedroom and see your bride in a coy state, a panic may strike you. How will you start your lovemaking? It would be difficult even to start a conversation with your equally embarrassed wife, lest thinking of a sexual relationship. At the same time you may have to quench your ego for the fear that your bride would consider you impotent for your inactiveness. Now, you will find yourself in a more embarrassed and timid state than your wife.

You cannot deny the truth that no one can teach you how to have sex. You may advertise for virgin girls in their matrimonial sites and when it comes to the first night, you expect your bride to be a seductress. However you know the truth that you can never expect your bride to initiate the sexual relationship. Therefore prepare your self for the first night sex in terms of knowledge. It could be regarding use of contraceptives, regarding hymen bleeding, and other psychological factors like control of anxiety etc.

You cannot jump upon your wife as a wild animal on a prey. First and foremost you must win your wife's confidence. You can start to talk about sex to your during the pre-marital courtship period. This will help you to understand each other's fantasies and secret desires. Also reading some stuff regarding the same will help a lot. You can even go together for a pre-marital counselling on sex, passion and sexual satisfaction. This may mentally prepare her for the first night adventure.

Most women will have their worst fears about a painful sex. "Will I bleed?" "Will it be painful?" are the common questions, your brides would ask. The answer to this is fairly simple. You can convince her that her hymen might have ruptured even due to strenuous sports, horse riding, swimming, cycling etc. If her hymen is still unbroken, bleeding can occur (though it doesn't have to), and she may even experience a little pain the first time. However you will not let her to suffer that pain during those ecstatic moments.

Now, you can start your initial steps for the sexual relationship. Just initiate a general conversation while caressing her palms. You can mildly shift the topic and movements to other regions. You must free yourself from the pressure to perform that can become a killing tension on the first night. You must devote a considerable time to foreplay as kissing her lips or earlobes, caressing her boobs or buttocks and rouse together to the same passionate erotic mood. You cannot expect to attain the complete sexual satisfaction in the first night itself. No person is a master sex performer from the very first time itself. Therefore every thing cannot happen perfect at first time itself. When such things occur, you and your bride have to get cool and try things after some time. However if you make each other comfortable on the first night itself, good sex is sure to follow.